Continuous, serious lying. You know, like when someone tells you they've never been arrested when they actually have been...and it's kind of important you know. Or smoking. See, I've been with a few smokers. The first guy I KNEW smoked, and kind of regrettably dealt with it. The second guy told me he didn't smoke because he knew I didn't WANT to be with a smoker. Another lie. Wow, this is getting personal. :D
Anyone who would threaten suicide after a fight. That's ridiculous and I'm not down with that kind of irresponsible drama. I need some kind of stability in my life. I'm going to have to go out on a limb here and say cheating if it's with another family member. Not just your everyday cheating, you know? If I was seeing someone and he slept with my sister I couldn't handle that. Not to say I'd be able to handle it if it was done with a perfect stranger, but I can't say how I would react. Although...I've been cheated on before and I think I handled it extremely well.
Any kind of abuse. If someone was tearing me up emotionally with the sole purpose to hurt or bring me down, I wouldn't tolerate it. Physical abuse is a given on my part, but I can almost empathize with women who go back to the men who laid hands on them. I can't say I understand completely, but I'd never call a woman stupid for going back. They are fighting a separate battle within themselves.
I'll leave it at that, as those are those most serious deal breakers. And yes, this entry is public. I have no idea why. I just felt like it.
- Mood:
irritated